Photo Breakdown: The Prompt

Issue #52

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You may think you only need prompts for ChatGPT, but even photographers have to use this handy technique to get some great output.

And like AI, the better your prompt, the better your results will be.

Even if you're a hardcore photojournalist (like "Steve" from Issue #34), you'll still need to do a little prompting when working with your couples.

There's nothing more awkward than holding your camera in front of two people staring at you waiting for their direction…and you not giving it (try it, I dare ya!)

This week, I'll provide one small but powerfully potent prompt that will definitely induce a response from your subjects...whether it's good or bad is up to you.

Lindy & Drew were a fun couple to work with!

From the first day we met, through their engagement session and now their big day, they were professionals at having a great time.

After an amazing ceremony, we headed to the reception held at the The Mayo Hotel, a historic venue in Tulsa, Oklahoma that was certainly going to redefine the word “fun.”

It was an evening wedding in September, if I recall, so the sun was already down when we reached the venue.

We had already shot the more formal photos at the church, but the couple wanted something with a bit of downtown-style, certainly befitting their personality.

The main entrance of The Mayo has this cool classic arched entrance that looks amazing at night (and pretty darn great in the daylight as well.)

As luck would have it, we'd have to pass through this classic entrance to head to the reception, so our location was decided.

Despite their strong desire for a cool photo, they did NOT want to spend a ton of time crafting some elaborate charade-like pose. They were a classy couple (still are), and wanted something real and cool...but fast.

Don't forget, the party is waiting up on the top floor, and nothing starts until the newlyweds get there, so tick-tock!

[Brief Constructive Service Announcement]

This is a good place to emphasize the importance of knowing how to use your gear.

Using your flash, whether on-camera or off, is a craft (i.e., a useful art form you can learn) that every wedding photographer should be, at the very least, pretty good at.

When time is short, your couple doesn't care about your learning curve. They want (and deserve) a great photo, and you must give it to them.

If you've practiced in advance and know how to use your gear, you can pop on that flash, dial in the correct settings, and get a great shot lickity-split.

[End of Announcement]

So I popped on my flash, dialed in the correct settings to light my happy couple AND, drag in some of the blurry warm glow of the illuminated hotel portico.

I started with an easy prompt and told them to "smoosh together" and look at me (click-click). I then gave the green light for a quick kiss (click-click), and that was that.

We were pretty well set and I could've let them go at this point. I would’ve been happy and they would’ve received some pretty groovy and crazy fast shots commemorating their night at The Mayo.

But I wanted something more for them.

Did I mention these two were fun? I think I did.

Here's where my power prompt comes in.

"Hey, Drew, whisper something sexy to your bride," I politely yet playfully prompted.

(click-click-click-click-click)

...and scene!

That's all it took – one quick nudge to get a photo that says everything about this couple. A photo that preserves the FEELING between them on this night that will prompt their grandkids to ask about it.

THIS is a memorable photo!

OK, now the warning.

Q. Will this work for everyone?

A. Of course not!

You have to find the prompt that will fit your couple and their personality.

If you say the wrong thing to the wrong person, oh, you'll get a response...just not the one you had hoped!

It's also a combo of WHAT you say and HOW you say it, but I'm sure you figured that one out yourself.

The bottom line is that you need this ammo in your Batbelt of cool tools.

People get used to standing in front of cellphones for a quick pic, but when you whip out the big gun, that lens can be more than a little intimidating, especially when adding a flash on top.

Your pleasant prompt will put them at ease.

And as a bonus, The Prompt works for anyone in front of your camera - a senior sports photo, a corporate headshot, or a 6-year-old at the park.

Just make it personal, and your prompt will serve you with unforgettable photos and a boost of confidence that every photographer needs.

Happy prompting!

It is more important to click with people than to click the shutter.

– Alfred Eisenstaedt

Finding ways to get your couple to look great in their photos is one of the little parts of the "inner game of wedding photography." THIS is what I write about each week in this newsletter.

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